I had to remind my daughter the other day, sometimes you meet the right person at the wrong time. People will change horses, you may get really excited about somebody and then all of a sudden realize, ‘Eh, not really my cup of tea.’ The full expression is “don't change horses mid-stream” (or, sometimes, “don't swap horses midstream”). The expression is usually credited to Abraham Lincoln who, during the Civil War, said that voters should re-elect him because it would be foolish to change leaders in the middle of such a turbulent time. However, not all is fair in love and war. And the only constant, these days, is change. Family love, romantic love, the love of an old friendship – it’s not only in our nature to love, it's our evolutionary advantage. It’s also our highest calling as human beings to love another person fully and completely. In fact, relationships are our biggest opportunity for spiritual growth. Love is something we all seek. It's our highest purpose. But we all come to relationships with different wiring, conditioning, cultures, belief systems, biochemistry, and a blueprint for what love looks like. And, yet we often make the mistake of thinking our experience of how love should be is the same as our partner’s. Then, we think we’ve made a mistake or lost love when conflict arises or the chemistry subsides. In reality, this is our opportunity to go deeper. People think relationships are about selecting the right person. They are more about becoming the right person. Using love to grow, to learn and to challenge yourself to find and give more. Be open to love and love has a way of finding you with the right person, at the